I don’t know about you… but I haven’t had a full stressful day in years…
Simple! I don’t worry about things that may or may not happen. I get the deal? Great! I don’t get the deal? Great! Move on! Kinda like dating, no?
- Opportunity comes
- Make a choice on it
- Win/Lose situation occurs
This is life. You can’t win everything and you can’t lose everything. I would say it is more like baseball and batting averages. Today you have a tough pitcher on his game and tomorrow you don’t.
In the stretch you should be succeeding or you are definitely doing something wrong. If that’s the case, consult with someone! Find a mentor or a friend that wants to listen to you and will help you find a solution (note: someone in the field of fixing things). I have people from all industries around me. I strive to keep them close.
How many friends do I have? Well that’s a based on your definition of what a friend is.
In reality, you need to become self aware. You have no friends and you have no one around you; only those who need you are around! But you need them and you are sharing services… use what is available and build on what you have to get what you want.
Stress leaves when you realize that you are who you are and things come as they come. Accept that you are in a rut and figure out a way to change what is causing the rut…
Bank called? Great! Girl/boy called? Great! Business partner, client, employer, landlord, and so on? Great!
Something is wrong let’s figure it out! Find out what you need fixing and move forward in your journey. After all no one is better nor worse than you!
Fact is I don’t stress. I don’t worry. I just wonder and my mind leaves into the abyss. When it comes back, work is done, the problem leaves and I am back in the game!